“That is the way I am”

Its quite easy to say “That is the way I am” but sometimes its quite difficult to know “What makes me to be like this”, “What is the way, I would be during the next hour”.

There is a saying “Change is the only constant things in the world”, Sometimes people used to say “ you hurt my feeling-therefore you should change”……You make me unhappy…..But If I am happy, then I don’t want to change myself for someone who can easily hurt with other words because it shows symptoms of a person who is having low self-esteem, having no control of his own personal power and more power in the hands of those who hurt his feelings; There is no point to change for someone who allow others to control their own happiness.

If I am right, then I don’t want to change for wrong…….

Sometimes I used to think, the things which is right for me, may be wrong for the others. How to know whether the right thing is right or not…..Today I got an answer…….Situation controls and decides whether the things is right or wrong. Question arises....
If I am having my own control, then why would I allow the situation to decide whether the things are right or wrong………….

Sometimes I used to think to control my own situation. When the situation arises, my expectation did not take proper patterns to control it. Suddenly my expectation takes a U-turn and I was just standing as if I am new to handle the situation. I am unable to control the situation.

If I am unable to control my situation, they why would I have to depend on the Time?
Sometimes I used to think, if someone is saying “That is the way I am” definitely there must be a reason behind it. May be the time itself requires more time to justify the reason behind it. Though the Reason never depends on anyone but it is having its own meaning and identification.

Finally, Change brings new situation which in turn depends upon time while time brings new experiences which inturn depends upon various reasons.

Its quite easy to say “That is the way I am” but sometimes its quite difficult to know “What makes me to be like this”, “What is the way, I would be during the next hour”.

Itishree

Sweetie: “Tell Me one Good Thing”

People generally used to ask “Tell me one good thing”. But every times I used to think to answer it . Today I asked to Sweetie: “Tell me one Good Thing”. She smiled and said….. Generally People used to have “Good Friends”, “Good time”, “Good manners”, “Good news”, “Good name”,…..etc. But what does it mean “Good Thing”.
“It’s a good thing that you asked me” but I am confused.

Things may be a special situation, an action, an event, an object. Or it may be a special particular objective or it may be an artifact (a man-made object) or it may be a statement. But Let me try to give an answer asked by “a genuinely good person” whom I admired most in my life. Let me find out an experience or a special situation or an action or events etc….to justify your answer……………

I asked to the star “Tell me one good thing”………..she replied
When a good person standing at the foot, gazing on me and closed his eyes and asking me for a particular wish to fulfill it…i.e., the most beautiful thing in my life……

I asked to the sun “Tell me one good thing”……….She replied
When a good person bend his leg, gazing on me and closed his eyes and fold his hand for a particular wish and pray for it…i.e., the most inspirational thing in my life…..

I asked to the flower “Tell me one good thing”…….She replied
When a good person pick me from the garden and remove all the thorns on me and closed his eyes and offer me to the God for a particular wish to fulfill it…i.e., the most aromatic thing in my life….

I asked to the God “Tell me one good thing”…….She replied
When a good person stand in front of me, and closed his eyes and shares all his problems and believe me for a particular wish to fulfill it…i.e., the most devotional thing in my life….
Just like others…

I asked to a girl “Tell me one good thing”…..She replied
When a good person standing in front of me, gazing on me and closed his eyes and asking me for a particular wish to fulfill it….May be i.e. the one good thing in my life…….

Sweetie: “Tell Me one Good Thing”
still i am searchin for that one Good Thing...

Itishree

The person whom I know is just a stranger

The person whom I know is just a stranger……
I wish if I would then I could……….

Sometimes worst things happened when two people discussed about everything.
Is it possible to analyze a person?
People used to spend their whole life together but still they tried to know each other.
Is it possible to know somebody within a particular time frame?


Sometimes due to situation people conclude about everything.
Is it easy to tell someone whether he/she is reliable or not?
People used to compare their life with themselves but they never tried to know the reason?
Is it easy to tell someone his/her personality?

Sometimes best things happened when two people enjoyed the moment of silence.
Is it difficult to feel that moment?
People used to ask question to know each other?
Is it difficult to know the answer?

Why people used to wait for the time to play a role in their lives? Why people used to say to change our mentality? Why people forced us to take certain things for their stupid worries and fear into their mind? Why people used to regret in the future for their present? Why people used to share their anger with somebody who never believes in anger? Why people used to hold when other wants to touch?

The person whom I know is just a stranger……
I wish if I would then I could……….

I wish I would be an eraser, I would erase the moment of my life …Bcoz I don’t want other person to play a role of stranger…………….Let the person come and write whatever he/she want to write…..I could be more happy.

I wish I would be a soft toy, I would do what others want me to do….Bcoz I don’t want other person to touch me and play a role of stranger….Let the person come and hold me wherever he/she want me to hold….I could be more happy.

I wish I would be a butterfly, I would live for others…..Bcoz I don’t want other person to live for me and play a role of stranger….Let the person come and change me whenever he/she want me to change….i could be more happy.

The person whom I know is not just a stranger…..There is a stranger inside me…….Let me know myself….Let me change myself for better and best……Let me be reliable for someone…….Let me allow others to judge me……..Let me follow and listen others feedback……..Let me fulfill others expectation.

The person whom I know is not just a stranger……
I wish if I would then I could……….

Itishree